Teaching a Church to
Pray
Steps to vital, life-giving times of group
prayer.
Daniel Henderson
The pastor who preceded me at Arcade served the
church 40 years. Bringing change to this congregation would be
either a supernatural work of God or professional suicide.
My first sermon at Arcade stressed the
importance of learning to pray in community. Our priority, I
said, was to become a house of prayer. Most people are prone to
become complacent; instilling a desire to seek after God was
essential to revitalizing Arcade for a new level of impact. And
that desire had to ignite in the lives of individuals if the
church as a whole was to be transformed.
Gather the prayer
leaders
I announced we were looking for people who seriously wanted to
pray for the church. I didn't know them well enough yet to
select leaders for a ministry, so I sought out people who were
already passionate about prayer. A handful volunteered. Along
with the current prayer leaders, they formed a core that would
lead a prayer renewal.
I trained these leaders in four areas.
1. The personal attributes of a prayer
leader. Building the hearts of prayer leaders is the
most important step. I remind them, "Prayer ministry will never
go any farther than the personal passion of those who lead it."
The first attribute we target is motive. The
leaders must be clear in mind and heart on why we pray. It's not
a church growth strategy; it's not to twist God's arm to bring
revival. Prayer is not about the church. The focus must be on
seeking God and knowing him, not on seeking what he can do for
us.
The second attribute is conviction. We have
130 programs going on at Arcade. Some people think of prayer as
program number 131. Our leaders cannot. Prayer is not another
program at the church, prayer is what drives everything we do.
The third attribute is longevity. Inspiring
others to pray is a permanent calling.
Early on the morning of a scheduled prayer
gathering, I reluctantly tossed the warm covers aside and
dragged myself out of bed. After leading multiple prayer
meetings every week for years, I pleaded with God, "I'm tired,
Lord. How long must I do this?"
"How long will you dress, shave, and brush
your teeth?" I felt him say. "Until you die. So shall you pray."
Prayer leaders need a dream of dying on their knees.
2. The vision for corporate prayer.
Our individualistic culture robs us of a vision for corporate
prayer. Private devotion is upheld as the ideal. But Scripture
teaches that the church prayed together. And Jesus taught
us to pray in a collective sense. The language of
Matthew 6 is essentially, "When
y'all pray, pray 'Our Father,' and 'give us our daily bread.'"
His ideal was that we pray in community.
People who have considered this teaching have
asked me, "Which is more important, private or corporate
prayer?"
I respond, "Which leg do you need to walk on
more, your right or your left?"
3. The practical dynamics of effective
prayer meetings. I grew up in a church whose prayer
meetings were, well, boring. A mournful hymn, an unrelated Bible
study, and thirty minutes listing the woes and needs of the
community left me feeling as though the whole world was
suffering from slipped discs and financial trouble. Effective
prayer meetings move beyond "bless him, be with her" prayer to
elevate pray-ers into the presence of God.
Jesus taught the disciples to begin in
adoration—"hallowed be thy name." We developed meetings that
began in worship and focused not on informing God of all the
troubles he already knows about, but on drawing the people into
communion with God. I teach our leaders, "If you pray to seek
God's face, you'll know his hand. But if you're looking for his
hand, you may miss his face."
Our weekly prayer meetings now begin with
opened Bibles, prayerful declarations of God's character, and
spontaneous songs of praise. All requests are held at bay until
we have worshiped well and connected with God's heart, mind, and
kingdom purposes.
4. Principles for managing prayer
meetings. We want prayer leaders to facilitate
effective, engaging prayer meetings. Part of their training
involves managing the common distractions—lack of focus and
members who mumble lengthy, disconnected discourses. We teach
the leaders to implement clearly defined themes for focus, and
to use a song and gentle instruction to center a group that has
disengaged.
Some of our leaders fret over whether God
approves of the direction they give the meetings. I tell them,
"God's not wringing his hands over whether you pray for India or
South America next. He's simply delighted that you are leading
his people into his presence."
That first training class became a six-week
program that we have repeated many times. During the program,
each leader has opportunities to lead the group in prayer, and
afterward we discuss and encourage their leadership. We also
expose them to extraordinary forms of expression—prayer walking,
prayer partners, even Internet chat room prayer. The goal is to
release them to begin prayer initiatives in the ways God is
leading them.
Shortly after we began our first training
class, I announced a three-day out-of-town prayer gathering. I
anticipated twenty might accept the invitation. More than one
hundred came to that first prayer summit. The enthusiasm of our
trained prayer leaders had already begun stirring the church. In
the past eight years, we've had 22 retreats, each one directed
by lay prayer leaders and attended by between 80 and 250 people.
Our Thursday evening prayer meeting, which
attracts hundreds of people, has become the church's context for
vision casting and ministry initiation. Our trained leaders have
created dozens of opportunities for prayer expression, including
prayer meetings, pastor's prayer partners, and our World Prayer
Center, an intercessory ministry for the church worldwide.
It's been said that when we work, we work;
but when we pray, God works. I'm discovering the best work I can
do is to pray and train others to lead prayer with a passion to
see God at work. It's the investment that brings life change and
lasting renewal as we build a house of prayer—together.
Daniel Henderson pastors Arcade Baptist Church
in Sacramento, California
daniel@arcadebaptist.com